Beyond
Nerves
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Clear Fear &Â Ride Calmly
because being nervous isn't like you
This is not therapy. This is not horse training.
This is neuroscience working the way your brain actually works,
because being nervous is a stored memory.Â
It’s not a flaw in you.Â
I'll help you stop letting one bad ride control every ride after it.
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Hi, I'm Tammy, and after working through my own mental mess of depression, anxiety, stress and pain, I've figured out that everyone sabotages themself unknowingly. I'm here to let you know:
You are not broken, and it's not a willpower problem.
Nothing worked for you because everything in your brain was aimed at the wrong target.Â
Let's re-discover the brave you and enjoy the ride!
 The fear you carry is not a character flaw, it's a specific, identifiable memory that your brain created and linked to horse riding that is now sabotaging your enjoyment, bravery and performance. Your brain has been faithfully honoring that link every since, completely below your conscious awareness. Willpower, lessons or self-improvement are a lot of work and changing tack costs a ton of money! Those tools don't operate at the level where the memory lives.
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I want to assure you that you have not been failing. You have been using the right effort in the wrong direction. And the moment the light turns on and you have that first "AHA!" moment, everything changes.  We use the Neuro Reset method to unlink and relink these neurological pathways without fear and force.
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This is a curated, effortless process designed for women ready to let go of the negative experiences they carry and enjoy riding again!
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The Neuro Reset Method
Intelligent transformation for the high-achieving woman.
Unlinking the experiences of the past through memory reconsolidation.
Your brain has been running a pattern you never chose.
You've never lacked bravery. You've tried, forced, pressured, criticized and punished yourself.
You've had enough of that in your past.
Let's try an easier solution.
Rewiring at the Source.
We use the Neuro Reset to unlink and relink the wiring in the brain.Â
We target the level where the memory lives to create effortless change.
Memories → Thoughts → Feelings → Actions → Results
"She went from white-knuckling through every stressful ride to not thinking about all the bad things that could happen. Not managing it. Not thinking about it."
Right effort. Right direction.
Finally free. Not managed. Free.
Your own brain delivers the solution.
Solace
I come to you.
 A weekend together to identify and target the specific neural memories linking riding to fear and sabotage to ignite the inner bravery you already have.
3 Private Sessions
Transform that experience and know how to stop the trigger in the moment. We meet online interactively!
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Normally $750 – ILHA Special $399
Curated Services
Vision Implementation
6 months self-curated coaching to match exactly what you need for ease and flow. Effortlessly rewire brain connections below the level of conscious awareness, ending the exhausting battle of pressure and force - rather be drawn by vision.
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10 Private Sessions
A transformative experience for eliminating triggers around showing and riding. We meet online interactively!
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Normally $1500 – ILHA Special $999
Bespoke Wellness Path
12 months curated experience designed for high-achieving women, providing a lifestyle plan that requires no pressure, no force... Â
Gaining that focused competitive edge!
Including: 1:1 weekend retreat
Vision Implementation
On demand high level coaching for elevated recalibrationÂ
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Beyond Nerves Community
Live coaching and community for riders who want to feel confident, connected and excited about what's possible with their horses.
We meet online interactively!
Join now and get the
$27 Calm My Nerves Guide Included!!Â
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ILHA Special $47/month
Update the
Pattern of Your Mind
Everything you've tried hasn't worked, not the:
 new tack, the body work, the lessons, the perfect weather, the new farrier...
Here's why: an emotion fired off at the same time as the feeling of riding horse. You didn't realize they wired together. Now the brain fires that feeling when stressed or uncomfortable. The pattern is established and runs on it's own like a bunch of brumbies. It IS something you can update to make your journey easier and more fun. Your brain will be optimized for new potential.
Stop letting nerves steal the rides you love.
Whether your nerves started after a fall, a scary ride, a difficult experience, or the pressure of showing and performing, you don't have to keep riding in the shadow of what happened.
I help horse riders move beyond the nerves, overthinking, and loss of confidence that can show up after a fall, scary ride, difficult experience, or the pressure of showing and performing, so they can feel calm, connected, confident, and excited to ride again.
You have spent years believing the pattern is your fault. You feel responsible for your horse, your lack of discipline, and that something is fundamentally wrong with you. That belief is the heaviest thing you carry, and it is completely wrong. The moment you land here, that weight begins to lift.
This is not therapy. This is not horse training. This is neuroscience working the way your brain actually works.